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100 possible premarital Questions

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Does a Woman Have Rights to Her Own Accommodation?

Question: I live with my inlaws for last 7 years, I dont get along with my father inlaw, I have asked my husband to move out from them. He is very hurt on this matter, He says he cannot live … Continue reading

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Can a Woman Arrange Her Own Marriage? Do I Need a Walli?

Can a Woman Arrange Her own Marriage? My question: Is it permissible for me to get myself married without my wali’s permission and approval? Is he an inadequate wali for me? Please answer me in detail, may Allah have mercy … Continue reading

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How can a matrimonial website where members are left to communicate in Private be Halal?

This is quite a good question. Firstly, Pure Matrimony is a website only for Practising people and we make this clear from our homepage.  We actively screen profiles to ensure only the right candidates join the site and also we … Continue reading

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The Suitable Age For Marriage?

What is the suitable age for marriage for men and women, because some young women do not accept marriage from those who are older than them? Likewise, some men do not marry women who are older than them. We request … Continue reading

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Relations Before Marriage: What is the view of the religion concerning [premarital] relations?

Answer: If the questioner means by “before marriage,” before consummation of the marriage but after the contract, then there is no harm in such relations since she is his wife by virtue of the contract, even though they have not … Continue reading

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Forced marriages: Is it permissible to force one’s daughter to marry someone she is not pleased with?

Answer: Her father cannot force her, nor can her mother force her to marry even if the both of them (i.e. mother and father) are pleased with his practice of the religion. Shaykh `Abdur-Rahmaan as-Sa`dee Al Majmoo’ah As-Sa’diyah vol. 7 … Continue reading

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Marriage to Relatives or Non-Relatives Preferred?

One of my relatives has come to me for the purpose of marriage but I heard to marry from non-relatives is preferred for the sake of the future of the children and other reasons. What is your opinion on this … Continue reading

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Is it obligatory for a woman to get married?

In Mawaahib al-Jaleel it was said: “Marriage is obligatory for a woman who is unable to feed or clothe herself unless she gets married.” In al-Sharh al-Kabeer, concerning obligatory marriage it says: “If a person fears that he may commit … Continue reading

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Love which ends in marriage – is it haraam?

Question Is love that ends in marriage haraam?. Answer Praise be to Allaah. Firstly: The relationship that develops between a man and a non-mahram woman, which people call “love” is a combination of haraam things that transgress shar’i and moral … Continue reading

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Is love before marriage better?

Question Is love before marriage better? What is more stable in Islam, a love marriage or an arranged marriage? Answer Praise be to Allaah. The issue of this marriage depends on the ruling on what came before it. If the … Continue reading

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It is not permissible to marry a zaani or zaaniyah unless they have repented

Question Is it permissible to marry a woman who used to commit zina?. Answer Praise be to Allaah. It is not permissible to marry a zaaniyah or zaani unless they have repented. If the man or woman has not repented … Continue reading

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Is it not permissible to marry a woman who used to commit zina

Question Is it permissible to marry a woman who used to commit zina?. Answer Praise be to Allaah. It is not permissible to marry a zaaniyah or zaani unless they have repented. If the man or woman has not repented … Continue reading

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He wants to marry a girl with whom he had a relationship

Question He wants to marry a girl with whom he had a relationship. I hope you can help me as I am in a deep trouble. I knew some girl who works far from where her family lives. For two … Continue reading

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